When To Move On From A Friendship

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In life, friends come and go. Here are 10 signs that it’s time to move on from a friendship:

 

1.    The common ground is gone. Sometimes when whatever brought you together is gone you don’t have any reason to stay friends. If you are friends through school and then you graduate you might not be able to sustain a friendship when the common ground is gone.

2.    They’re a toxic friend. If they’re just a bad friend all around, it’s time to move on. You shouldn’t have to wonder if it’s the right choice if they are a toxic person in your life.

3.    They’re holding you back. If they are holding you back and keeping you from perusing your goals then it’s time to move on. Your friends should help to elevate you in life, not hold you back.

4.    You can’t relate to each other. If you’re not on the same page anymore then it’s time to let the friendship go. If you’re in different places in life and just can’t see where they’re coming from, it’s ok to move on.

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Please don’t judge @janine_tugonon (Ms. Janine Tugonon) without knowing the whole story

Out of my curiosity about the negative posts and comments in Facebook about Ms. Janine Tugonon, I myself watched that certain video clip from Kris TV.

When I watched that clip, honestly, (hindi ako naghuhugas-kamay), I didn’t had any criticism in mind. It’s just that, we need not release our criticisms over a huge crowd of people, especially through social media. We have the choice to just shut up and keep our criticisms among ourselves.

Okay let’s say, she’s a celebrity and everything about her seems to be “public”, but oh please, she’s still a person and has feelings too. To err is human. We all commit mistakes, and if she really did something wrong, that won’t make her less of a person.

Respect begets respect.

Paano? : Advent of Second Quarter Together

Three months na kami bukas. Madaming tumatakbo sa isip ko. Paano kung nakalimutan niya na monthsary pala namin dahil sa pagiging busy niya lately?…

Paano, eto na naman ako.

Parang napadalas na naman pag-aaway at tampuhan namin, kadalasan dahil sa time. Late magreply ang kung sinuman sa amin, busy na masyado at wala ng time para magkita, at bukod pa dun, mga tipong magjojoke-an tapos may mapipikon. Pero kahit ganun, okay lang naman. Keri ko parin. Pero, isa pang malaking PERO,minsan napapaisip ako, paano kung isa sa amin susuko na at aayaw na? Wag naman sana mangyari yun.

Hay naku Karol, pagod at stressed ka lang,  dami mo na namang iniisip.

Going back, paano kung nakalimutan nga niya na monthsary pala namin? Ay lintik yan, ewan ko kung gaano ako malulungkot. Masakit kung sakali, iiyak ng iiyak at di siya kakausapin. Pero sa kabila nun, pipilitin ko nalang iintindihin, na busy days na talaga ang mga araw ngayon, at nawawalan na kaming time. Pero na naman, kung wala ng time sa isa’t isa, paano nalang kami?

There are a lot of things I look forward in our second quarter of being together.